Girls who wear their hearts on their sleeves are a dying breed
in our era of cynicism. But, the ones who have this rare and beautiful trait
need to protect it. Why they are special... I might not be able to explain as I
am very close to one of its kind. Waking up everyday with the thought of
knowing her and talking to her everyday keep you sane in your quarantine days.
Listing down 8 reasons why you should date/love/be close to a
girl who keeps her heart on her sleeves. Why 8 reasons ? It's my lucky number and
I have to stop writing as I have to keep it sweet and crisp.
She Speaks Her Mind
She
is the one who would be blunt when it comes to speaking her mind. I use to
call her brutally honest. You should know that you can trust her to get real
with you every time. She'll be the first one to speak up if she doesn't
agree with your decision. She will not try to play " Follow the
leader" especially she has the strongest inner compass there in her
sleeves.
She's
Not Always So Sweet
She
is getting tired of being known as the “nice” one in your squad and trust me
she enjoys every bit of it. Just to clarify that just because she has a ton of
feelings sitting right on her sleeves, that does not make her fragile by any
means. She will always make you believe that she is really strong, confident
and independent woman. She will not stop until you have the same faith in her
(I can vouch for this).
Whenever
there is a drama, she will step out and add more Drama to the situation as she
loves to do what’s best for her. Why I love this trait or this girl because she
will make other people her priority and I believe she should be given a choice
to pick herself first too. Life has made her tough and you have to deal with
it.
She's Thoughtful
She
is a savior for my kind of people when it comes to give each other gifts for
any special occasion. You would never know that she has a recording of that
incident when you saw some cute outfit or any accessory in the window of your
store 6 months ago. She wll pick out the perfect card and save it for your
birthday. She is naturally so in tune to other people’s thoughts and feelings.
This
gets her into a little trouble too. When she is so thoughtful and you are dumb,
she sets the standards really high for you and don’t get what she is looking
for in return. My advice, you have to give this girl some reassurance that you
care about her just as much (She wont get it most of the time but you have to
keep trying :P)
She
is Romantic
This
girl lives in Yash Chopra movies along with Shah Rukh Khan. So you can guess
you are competing against those who have won the girl basis already written
scripts. She probably day dream about DDLJ and seriously believes in soulmates. She
can always be caught saying, "Awe!" over couples on social media and
endless engagement videos.
You'll
find her looking for a love story that'll last and she can cry on the same
scene endless time. She's honestly the sweetest person to call your partner
because she makes the people she cares about such a priority.
My
advice, don't take advantage of her romantic heart. She wears it on her sleeve,
but needs someone who will understand it just the same.
She
is a Great Listener
She
is so connected with her thoughts and feelings which makes her very
understanding. Having heart to heart with her is always an stirring experience,
because she will listen to all your problems and put her best advice forward.
She'll
be blunt with you when you need to hear the hard truth, but she'll also let you
speak your mind. Sometimes logic just isn't enough and you need someone to
speak from the heart.
Improvisation Queen
She
is always looking for new things to satisfy her soul. You will notice that she
will never settle and runs with her emotion everytime and improvise herself
with the situation so she can cope up with outcome. If given a chance and money
she will catch the first flight to see a new beautiful place right away. I
believe she knows this world has so much to offer to her passionate heart.
My
thoughts, this girl is so independent and she knows what she wants at any given
point of time but is always open to change her course to grow if required.
Trust me you will have a hard time to convince so if you want to be with her
just be yourself that would be much easy
than remembering every chat you sent to her.
Driven
by Heart
This
girl will always follow her heart when it comes to decisions and figuring out
anything at work or in life. I at times choose to focus on the logic or go with
the gut but she finds the most confidence in her feelings, despite the fact
that they could change at any time.
She
knows what she is passionate about, and will fearlessly set out to live a life
full of love, because its more exciting that way. So before you assume anything
about her, you must know that its not all about what you see on the surface.
Let me quote someone very close to me “Shashank, You get what you want to see!
That’s how universe works”.
She
Will Move On with Love, Not Hate
Even if she has these many qualities, she has to
experience breakups as most of the time we won’t be able to see the qualities
of a person until we lose them. Even girls who wear their hearts on their
sleeves experience breakups. She would be heartbroken as you are, she accept
the fact that she will always love her EX.
She know she wont ever be “over it” and because of this
she is at peace knowing that her EX will remain in her heart always. Which will
give her immense pain at times but she is fine with it as she wants to live by
that code. She always wants to look back on her relationship with appreciation
as she has wished him luck, wholeheartedly.
My advice, a guy would be lucky to experience love with a girl
who keeps her heart on her sleeves.
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