A letter from a Father

Dear Son,

I am writing this to you because of 3 reasons......

1. Life, fortune and disaster are unpredictable; nobody knows how long he lives. Some words are better said early. 

2. I am your father, and if I don't tell you these, no one else will.

3. What is written, is my own personal bitter experiences that perhaps could save you a lot of unnecessary heartaches. 

Remember the following as you go through life....

• Do not bear bitterness towards those who are not good to you. No one has the responsibility of treating you well, except your mother and me. To those who are good to you, you have to treasure it and be thankful, and ALSO you have to be cautious, because,everyone has a motive for every move. You have to be very careful, don't hastily regard him as a real friend.
• No one is necessary,nothing in the world that you must own. Once you understand this idea, it would be easier for you to go through life when people around you don't want you any more or when you lose anything which you love most.
• Life is short. When you waste your life today, tomorrow you would find that life is leaving you. The earlier you treasure your life, the better you enjoy life.
• Love is a short-lived feeling, and this feeling would fade with time and with one's mood. If your so called loved one leaves you, be patient, time will wash away your aches and sadness. Don't over amplify the beauty and sweetness of love, and don't over exaggerate the sadness of falling out of love.
• A lot of successful people did not receive a good education, that does not mean that you can be successful by not studying hard! Whatever knowledge you gain is your weapon in life.
• I do not expect you to financially support me when I am old, either would I financially support your whole life. My responsibility as a supporter ends when you are grown up. After that, you decide whether you want to travel in a public transport or in your limousine, whether rich or poor. End of the it will be your decision and you have to put effort according to that.
• You should honor your words, but don't expect others to be so. You can be good to people, but don't expect people to be good to you. If you don't understand this, you would end up with unnecessary troubles because expectations hurt.
• I have bought lotteries and tried other short ways to earn money for umpteen years, but I never strike any prize. That shows if you want to be rich, you have to work hard! There is no free lunch!
• No matter how much time I have with you, let's treasure the time we have together. We do not know if we would meet again in our next life. 

Always remember one thing no matter what people say about you. You will always be my son and we will always feel proud about you. seeing you and having you in our life was a privilege to us.

Love you Beta…!!

Your Pa

Soul Searching

Here I want to tell my some personal experience about life. These experiences may be very childish and useless. But these are the things which I have learnt through my life.

Here I want to list down some steps with the help of that you can find yourself.

• Spend at least 60 minutes in a day with yourself and think about your 23 hours life which you spent that day itself.
• Don’t react immediately to what you think. Become aware of them and try to figure it out and make a decision on how to respond.
• Don’t try to change the world in one go. Know that if you want to do this; you have to start with yourself.
• Find out the things which make you happy and think about them and improve them to the next level.
• Believe that your thoughts are limited and you have seen the world up to none so don’t make judgment on the basis of your immature thoughts.
• Don’t think about the past mistakes; make sure that it would not be happen in near future.
• Take your criticism as a challenge and make those criticisms as driven power towards your destination.

After this you will be introduced to a person who is unknown to you even it is always with you. It’s not a ‘Rocket Science’ as we used to listen from our seniors. But to start this is not a easy task. We have to do it not for others only for us.

Don’t do the great things for others, do it for yourself because people will learn from you in near future.

My Desire

“Why are you doing such childish activity every time” this is the most common sentence we used to listen in our daily schedules. We brought up like that a child in us was died in that pressure of getting older. That child remains in us who want to do something innovative and different some of times. That child forget that it is not the right time for doing those activities. Whenever we see those things happen around us we just think back to our childhood days where we have enough freedom to do foolish activity no one was there to ask why we did so because we were child.

In present time that child who is with us all the time to justify us that why be so serious. We can have fun all the time. In fact that desire driving us to enjoy our life on fullest but we denied with the fact that we are now old, now we can’t do such activities. What people will say on that reaction? Remember childhood when we need a chocolate which was our favorite. We used to do all the things to find that. 

I remembered an incident I was very fond of eating chocolate and jam. These were my all time favorite up to then. My mom always gave extra chocolate only when I would do some extra things apart from my daily schedules. For those extra chocolate was my reward and ambition at that point of time. I always want to get all of them due to that I used to do daily extra work related study and house hold tasks at the age of four. I found it very easy because I just help my mom and I used to get chocolate and extra bread.

That time I didn’t get distracted from my ultimate goal even I don’t know about the world. I was very focused about my chocolate. In present we fail to focus on one thing in life. We are unable to decide our priorities. We are failing to do things which we always want to do. Even today my mother had that jar of MilkyBar chocolate in my room, which told me if you are capable only then you can get some extra in your life. I realized that even today my mom wanted to teach me that beta be focused and the world will be yours.