My Dad is My Super Hero!

No Matter how hard Life would be or what challenges it throws at you, In Any of the cases you have to look back and you will find your father there for you. Even if he comes home late from work and will not be able to give more time to you but he cares and want only the best for you. I remember my childhood days when I used to think he is the guy who can do anything in this world and I am totally in control and safe when she is around. He is my superhero till date.

I thought to make this day special for him, I thought about gifts, party and plans but finally I thought of writing this note. Without him I won’t be a human being which I have imagined throughout my life. Below are the reasons why he is supercool Dad for me (Listed only 10). .

·         Dad has always tried his level best to make me a good human being.

·         I always enjoy spending time with him and learn new things with him.

·         He wants me to become a good human being like him. That is why he always teaches me to differentiate between wrong & right.

·         Every day he used to take out little time for me in the night to acknowledge my day to day activities and problems if any.

·         He is my best friend. I can discuss everything with him without any hesitation. Things that I fail to reveal out to my close friends, I can easily discuss them with my Dad.

·         He is like a hero to me. He is a funny, cool, adventurous and smart human being

·         He has showed me the opportunities that exist in front of me. But at the same time he has left the decision up to me in terms of which path to choose.

·         He is very confident that his efforts to make me a good human being will never go in vein. Seeing his confidence in me some day I want to make him proud.

·         Whenever I feel low he is just a call away and his voice on phone saying “What Happened, Batayega Nahi” just makes me comfortable and gives me courage to fight the world.

·         He taught me that people are not wrong or right circumstances make them to behave like one. He is the guy who brings positivity out of any situation and consoles me in the bad phase of my life.

In short he is the reason I feel relaxed and full of energy in my life. His confidence in me gives me power to take the world down if require. One of his favourite quotes defines life for me “If you cannot do anything for a person, give him hope to fight the circumstances in that way you will win that person for LIFE”.

Love you Dad! 

14 Reasons Why I Love You?

To be in love is May be one of the most magical feelings in the world. Love is capable of filling your life with such colours that were previously thought to be unimaginable.


I often wonder why I love you. Is it your presence, your smile, your eyes, or just the feeling of togetherness we share whenever we meet or talk. I wonder why I always seem to forget the things I want to tell you when we talk and keep getting lost in you.

1. I love that you are my best friend in the whole world and always will be.
2. I love that since the day you came into my life, everything's been perfect
3. I love how every time I look at you or talk to you, you take my breath away
4. I love the way you inspire me to be more than I am
5. I love the way you take the time to thank me for doing everyday things.
6. I love your ability to make me feel better when times are tough.
7. I love the way you won't let me compromise myself.
8. I love the way your voice sounds over the phone.
9. I love watching stupid serials because you love watching them.
10. I love when you seek explanations from me.
11. I Love the support you offer for my hopes and dreams.
12. I love that you listen to what I say
13. I am continually amazed by the depths of your kindness and your willingness to care for others, not just me.
14. I love that even though you know everything about me you still look at me the way you do

I am a guy who believes in Living the Moments as and when they come but when I think about you I feel stability. I promise that you are the ONE and you will be the LAST.

A Letter to God...!!

Dear God,

I am writing this letter to you with all due respect. I feel lost whenever I think about you or even talk about you. At times I get so much frustrated because I cannot accept certain facts in my life coz of some logical reasons behind it. But then I realized that if I believed in you then I should easily accept  whatever is happening as a part of your wish. But I am not like those people who can believe just like that. However I have a lot of respect for those who have immense trust in you and think that without your existence no one can breathe. Once my Mother told me that God has great plans for me and after sometime I found myself lost and suddenly all his plans became bad. I am not claiming that you are solely responsible for all the bad deeds or you don’t do good things but it surprises me when you can do things then why didn’t you control the outcomes of my bad planning.

Some of my friends told me that you do speak to us may be in a different way but we do not listen to you. It is not because we are bad but because we are human and we always tend to look at things from our perspective and not from your perspective. My friends say that when we do something it differs from the planned outcome then that means God has changed plans for us. So please tell me how many times you change your planes coz it happens to some of people now and then. In such cases I can come up with a different logic: that you didn’t think about anyone else interfering in your planning. As my friend claims that you can control each and everything, then why don’t you control the consequences before things gets worse?

If you have made us to do or act the way you want us to then we are nothing but your puppets. This makes me think that you are a Dictator who just needs slaves to follow the rules and praise you for their deeds.

I think God will Be like This...!!

My last but not the least point: as you said, you don’t force anyone to follow you but then have you ever thought or observed the list of your followers? Most of them are suffering from fear. Fear of doing something different in life because you might punish them if those so called consequences don’t support them. The biggest fear is you. They cannot decide what is right or wrong for them because they are so dependent on you that you will handle everything for them. Some of them have blind faith on you that you will never let any bad thing happen to them however these are the people who end up crying on the spilled milk. I can understand your condition that you possibly cannot handle 6 billion people at a time and you may not be having good staff to manage such a huge database. But that cannot be an excuse coz at the end of the day you are a GOD!!!

Lord I request you that you will guide all those people who live in an imaginary world and wait for you to do miracles in their life. Bless them Lord and grant them peace of mind and safety. If you are there and understand the depth of this letter, I am not a person who is challenging your intentions but I am just pointing out some of the rules which people follow blind folded. Hope everything is going well at your place and all applications on the DBMS is running perfectly. God don’t take my letter in wrong way and please don’t surprise me by more worst shocking experiences. It’s not that I believe in you and I am scared of you but that tricks of scaring me by bad omen won’t work on me.

Amen!

Yours Faithfully,

ME

A letter from a Father

Dear Son,

I am writing this to you because of 3 reasons......

1. Life, fortune and disaster are unpredictable; nobody knows how long he lives. Some words are better said early. 

2. I am your father, and if I don't tell you these, no one else will.

3. What is written, is my own personal bitter experiences that perhaps could save you a lot of unnecessary heartaches. 

Remember the following as you go through life....

• Do not bear bitterness towards those who are not good to you. No one has the responsibility of treating you well, except your mother and me. To those who are good to you, you have to treasure it and be thankful, and ALSO you have to be cautious, because,everyone has a motive for every move. You have to be very careful, don't hastily regard him as a real friend.
• No one is necessary,nothing in the world that you must own. Once you understand this idea, it would be easier for you to go through life when people around you don't want you any more or when you lose anything which you love most.
• Life is short. When you waste your life today, tomorrow you would find that life is leaving you. The earlier you treasure your life, the better you enjoy life.
• Love is a short-lived feeling, and this feeling would fade with time and with one's mood. If your so called loved one leaves you, be patient, time will wash away your aches and sadness. Don't over amplify the beauty and sweetness of love, and don't over exaggerate the sadness of falling out of love.
• A lot of successful people did not receive a good education, that does not mean that you can be successful by not studying hard! Whatever knowledge you gain is your weapon in life.
• I do not expect you to financially support me when I am old, either would I financially support your whole life. My responsibility as a supporter ends when you are grown up. After that, you decide whether you want to travel in a public transport or in your limousine, whether rich or poor. End of the it will be your decision and you have to put effort according to that.
• You should honor your words, but don't expect others to be so. You can be good to people, but don't expect people to be good to you. If you don't understand this, you would end up with unnecessary troubles because expectations hurt.
• I have bought lotteries and tried other short ways to earn money for umpteen years, but I never strike any prize. That shows if you want to be rich, you have to work hard! There is no free lunch!
• No matter how much time I have with you, let's treasure the time we have together. We do not know if we would meet again in our next life. 

Always remember one thing no matter what people say about you. You will always be my son and we will always feel proud about you. seeing you and having you in our life was a privilege to us.

Love you Beta…!!

Your Pa

Soul Searching

Here I want to tell my some personal experience about life. These experiences may be very childish and useless. But these are the things which I have learnt through my life.

Here I want to list down some steps with the help of that you can find yourself.

• Spend at least 60 minutes in a day with yourself and think about your 23 hours life which you spent that day itself.
• Don’t react immediately to what you think. Become aware of them and try to figure it out and make a decision on how to respond.
• Don’t try to change the world in one go. Know that if you want to do this; you have to start with yourself.
• Find out the things which make you happy and think about them and improve them to the next level.
• Believe that your thoughts are limited and you have seen the world up to none so don’t make judgment on the basis of your immature thoughts.
• Don’t think about the past mistakes; make sure that it would not be happen in near future.
• Take your criticism as a challenge and make those criticisms as driven power towards your destination.

After this you will be introduced to a person who is unknown to you even it is always with you. It’s not a ‘Rocket Science’ as we used to listen from our seniors. But to start this is not a easy task. We have to do it not for others only for us.

Don’t do the great things for others, do it for yourself because people will learn from you in near future.

My Desire

“Why are you doing such childish activity every time” this is the most common sentence we used to listen in our daily schedules. We brought up like that a child in us was died in that pressure of getting older. That child remains in us who want to do something innovative and different some of times. That child forget that it is not the right time for doing those activities. Whenever we see those things happen around us we just think back to our childhood days where we have enough freedom to do foolish activity no one was there to ask why we did so because we were child.

In present time that child who is with us all the time to justify us that why be so serious. We can have fun all the time. In fact that desire driving us to enjoy our life on fullest but we denied with the fact that we are now old, now we can’t do such activities. What people will say on that reaction? Remember childhood when we need a chocolate which was our favorite. We used to do all the things to find that. 

I remembered an incident I was very fond of eating chocolate and jam. These were my all time favorite up to then. My mom always gave extra chocolate only when I would do some extra things apart from my daily schedules. For those extra chocolate was my reward and ambition at that point of time. I always want to get all of them due to that I used to do daily extra work related study and house hold tasks at the age of four. I found it very easy because I just help my mom and I used to get chocolate and extra bread.

That time I didn’t get distracted from my ultimate goal even I don’t know about the world. I was very focused about my chocolate. In present we fail to focus on one thing in life. We are unable to decide our priorities. We are failing to do things which we always want to do. Even today my mother had that jar of MilkyBar chocolate in my room, which told me if you are capable only then you can get some extra in your life. I realized that even today my mom wanted to teach me that beta be focused and the world will be yours.